Meet Margot

Why I do the work I do

I help people love themselves harder and fuller because people who love themselves completely do not hurt other people. People who are at peace in their own lives do not end other people's lives. This is not wuwu, airy-fairy stuff. This is life and death.

I choose courage sharing my words, my truth, my feelings with the hope that it inspires you to choose love over hate.

Every choice you make has consequences. You can bring peace into the world or you can bring suffering. You can inspire hope or you can inspire fear. The world needs you to be brave, move through your fear and shine your light. And you know what? Choosing courage and choosing love is WAAAAY more fun!

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"Fear is the little mind-killer. I will face my fear. I will permit it to pass over me and through me… Where the fear has gone there will be nothing. Only I will remain" ~ Frank Herbert

| AUTHOR | ACTIVIST | fACILITATOR |

Today, I am living proof that it's possible to live a life of joy, ease, abundance, love and fun! I published my first book this past September Choose Love: A Simple Path to Healthy, Joyful Relationships. I have helped thousands of men and women come home to their true essence of courage, trust and love through my book, one on one coaching, group classes and workshops.

I've also fulfilled a lifelong dream to bring more dance into the world by creating the Choose Love Dance Club. Dancing has always made me feel good no matter what is happening in my life, my kids' lives, and the world around me.

My current focus is on expanding my own and my tribe's definition of love. Love is not always soft and smushy huggy energy. Love can be a fierce powerful agent of change in our personal relationships as well as in the bigger world. Sometimes love looks like ending a relationship that isn't serving either person's highest good. Sometimes love looks like speaking a scary truth to someone whom you know will disagree with you and maybe even react in anger and hatred.

LOVE & RELATIONSHIP COACH

My name is Margot Schulman and I am the mindful badass spark-igniter behind Choose Love Revolution. Reading all the books and following all the gurus, I became a Certified Sex, Love & Relationship Coach with the extraordinary Layla Martin. Through this program, I learned how to rewire my brain, shift my behavior and make different, healthier choices in all my close relationships.

This part of my life journey began while sitting in a couple's therapist's office with my (then) husband about 6 years ago. It hit me like a baseball to the forehead that my marriage was over.

I spent the next year in survival mode while caring for myself and my two young children. I was standing in the center of a tornado – everything swirling around me. I continued therapy – uncovering patterns and childhood origins of the unhealthy relationships in all areas of my life.

I got crystal clear on my negative patterns, but I had no tools to change them. I knew there had to be a better path – someone, somewhere was having healthy relationships, I just knew it!

Teachers tell us to "love ourselves" but don't tell us how! I spent years trying, only to feel even more harshly critical of myself because I couldn't just magically turn on the "self love button."

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Q & A

What is the best compliment you’ve ever received? From my daughter Isadora, at 6 years old, “You are magic. Your magic is your kindness.”

What are you most proud of? That my two children are incredibly confident, compassionate, creative, joyful, and fun human beings

If you could have one super power, which would you choose? To be able to turn into a mermaid and swim everywhere in the ocean.

What is something you are currently working on in yourself? Expanding my ability to receive help and support from loved ones with grace rather than guilt.

What best describes the way you live and work? I am here to have fun, no matter what!

accreditations

Margot Schulman is an Activist, Author, Facilitator and Love, Sex & Relationship Coach with over 16 years of experience coaching individuals to create peace, freedom and love in their lives.

Margot is the creator of the “Turn Up Your Turn On,” “Break Free From Unhealthy Patterns in Sexuality, Love and Relationships” and “Be The Change: Become a Love Activist” workshops. A graduate of Columbia University, Margot is certified as a Sex, Love and Relationship Coach, a Holistic Health Counselor and a Shake Your Soul Dance Teacher.

Margot has been a guest lecturer at the Institute for Integrative Nutrition, a facilitator at the Rise Gathering, Empowered You and ‘Treat retreats, a workshop leader at The Assemblage and Firefly Yoga, and a featured speaker at the Get What You Want Summit hosted by Dr. Heather Clark. MD.